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Pursuing the idea of daily hot...
2019-06-02
One of the traditions I maintain is to have a hot bath every night. I'm further inspired by a story I just watched about Matsunoyama Hot Springs in Japan which got established because a hawk bathed in...
GOOD CONVERSATIONS ARE ADULT T...
2019-05-31
The CHART was developed from a class that Sam and I took called PARENT EFFECTIVENESS TRAINING. It applies to all communication but particularly to PROBLEM TIMES. In each of us there is a PARENT-ADULT-...
A Way to Start Daily Practice ...
2019-05-28
Similar to the Judo practice sessions of bowing to honor the teacher and the dojo/practice room, I can start my day with mindfulness of my living space. Using the previous Ikebana Principle of flowers...
NEED ALL THREE ON THE TEAM TO ...
2019-05-23
Most of us are part of some work place environment - job, our homes, clubs. If we want that environment to thrive and not just survive, Durst says, "Unlike personality types, operational styles addres...
THE ART OF GENTLE PERSUASION
2019-05-22
The art of Judo is considered a defensive skill such as warding off an unwanted physical attack. Therefore, the practice of the skill in lessons is to take turns throwing the opponent to the ground by...
POWER OF USING LIMITED RESOURCES!
2019-05-14
My cousin said to me recently, "Do you know how poor you were?" I am constantly grateful that I grew up poor. We had the basics. With Ikebana, the art of flower arranging, the basics are the flowers t...
BON = TRAY; SAI = PLANTING
2019-05-08
Bonsai plants bring nature into our homes. I like the comparison of the Gardener to Parenting. Trimming away the excess is the discipline we need, not only in keeping a clean physical environment, but...
11 PRINCIPLES THAT WILL CHANGE...
2019-05-06
Several years ago, Ike was one of the first individuals of Japanese Heritage to get an executive job as Director of Atlantic Street Center in Seattle. It was during a time when "Black Is Beautiful" wa...
BRINGING OUR THE BEST IN MYSEL...
2019-04-23
When I was a teenager, I had a serious argument with my Dad. I said, "I can be anything I want."He adamantly shouted and forcefully answered, "NO YOU CAN'T!"That conversation remains clear in my mind ...
PASSING IT ALONG!!!
2019-04-18
It's taken me a while to get used to my new life, but as I get organized I'm finding that when it is known that I am 80 years old, I get all kind of perks. By perks, I mean that the people helping me ...